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September 27, 2018

Five Minute Friday: POTENTIAL

Five Minute Friday

Today’s Prompt: POTENTIAL

I ordered a new 2018 AP Stylebook. I could have chosen “slightly used” or some other flawed option and paid less money, but this is enough of a professional necessity that I decided to pay full price.

And yet … it arrived imperfect

The vendor blames the postal service (probably true). They offered a full refund if I would send it back (undoubtedly through the same postal service) or a 30% refund if I would keep it.

Maybe it was laziness that led me to keep it and not send it back.

As I kept using it, though, the imperfect version grew on me.  The information inside is no different than it would be if the cover were perfect.

I look at that crimped cover and think of people full of potential who aren’t given a chance they deserve because people can’t or won’t see past cosmetic blemishes and poor first impressions.

Our stories take longer to tell, and are richer/more nuanced, than our outer shell lets on.

*Note – written on my phone – I am at a conference and didn’t want to delay joining everyone at the FMF linkup. I am literally “all thumbs” for this one!

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Paula Kiger
Paula Kiger

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  1. Jane Anderson says

    September 28, 2018 at 6:18 am

    I love this analogy ALOT. Damaged goods are still valuable. How it looks has no bearing on what can come from it. Yes, book or person.

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    • Paula Kiger (@biggreenpen) says

      September 28, 2018 at 7:38 am

      Exactly, Jane!

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  2. Gabriele says

    September 28, 2018 at 7:59 am

    Wow! Yes the stories people tell have ever so much more depth than a quick assessment by the outside world.

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    • Paula Kiger (@biggreenpen) says

      September 28, 2018 at 11:22 am

      Exactly. I could have framed this differently (needing to be more assertive with the vendor, to try to get my money back etc etc etc and honestly this flaw DOES make it a little difficult to OPEN the book, which is a problem (LOL)) but it sits there by where I work and kind of “speaks” to me. 🙂

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  3. Lesley says

    September 28, 2018 at 8:40 am

    It’s so true- we can’t often see the potential unless we look deeper and stop judging people at face value!

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    • Paula Kiger (@biggreenpen) says

      September 28, 2018 at 11:23 am

      Yes. This is a lesson I need to relearn over and over and over.

      Reply
  4. Andrew Budek-Schmeisser says

    September 28, 2018 at 5:12 pm

    Paula, this is GREAT. The perfect analogy.

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    • Paula Kiger says

      September 30, 2018 at 10:48 am

      Thank you Andrew (I’ve been at a conference and am just getting to replies — but I read your comment a few days ago and appreciate it).

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  5. Cindy says

    September 28, 2018 at 6:39 pm

    Your thumbs worked great Paula! This is such an important reminder to not juspdge a book by its cover! Love it! Cindy

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    • Cindy says

      September 28, 2018 at 6:40 pm

      *judge Now who’s all thumbs?

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      • Paula Kiger says

        September 30, 2018 at 10:48 am

        Ha ha ha! I’m old school and it feels odd doing it that way but when the words need to come out, they need to come out!

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  6. Tara says

    September 29, 2018 at 9:59 pm

    Amen! We need to be better about looking beyond what’s on the outside. I’m in the 43 spot this week.

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    • Paula Kiger says

      September 30, 2018 at 7:49 am

      We surely do. I look forward to visiting your post.

      Reply

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