Cyber Safety: Every Kid Needs A Tribe

I participated in an Influencer Activation Program on behalf of Mom Central Consulting for BGCA. I received a promotional item to thank me for my participation.

I can’t begin to describe my happiness and pride as I watched my daughter walk across the stage on May 28, celebrating her graduation from high school.

Celebrating Graduation!  Photo Credit: Stacy Carlton

Celebrating Graduation!
Photo Credit: Stacy Carlton

As happy as that evening was, I will never forget the difficult times on the path to graduation night, including bullying in 8th and 9th grade, both in person and online. Arguably, those experiences made her a stronger person, but she paid a heavy price. They also made me as a parent keenly attuned to cyber safety issues.

I wish she had had access to the Boys and Girls Clubs of America’s Cyber Safe Futures Initiative and been able to share her hard questions with peers via the CyberTribe Q&A. (Note, Sprint is a partner in this initiative – thanks, Sprint!)

I agree with the Boys and Girls Club (BGCA) Cyber Safe project that talking to our kids about online safety is critical. Do you struggle with where to begin? Do you think to yourself, “how harmful can Facebook or [insert social media app of choice here] be?” “What damage can one text do?” “My child would know how to tell me when things shift from innocent to dangerous.”

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If so, a good way to get a handle on your level of preparedness to discuss online safety is to take the “Are you a cyber smart parent?” quiz. It’s quick! Here’s the link.  Go ahead, answer the eight questions. I’ll wait …

……………………………………Paula waits patiently…………………………………….

Were you surprised? Reassured? Aware of new questions, apps, and issues for which you are not prepared?

Fortunately, the Cyber Safe initiative has lots of resources to help you and your child get a grip on online safety. Here are some of the options:

Discussion Cards that can be used to facilitate chats about cyber safety topics, such as this one:

A Discussion Card to be used as part of a group activity related to cyber safety.

A Discussion Card to be used as part of a group activity related to cyber safety.

Tips for Parents, such as these tips that are specific to cyberbullying.

Links to Resources, such as these resources about mobile technologies.

The CyberTribe is also available to answer your questions (parents AND kids)! The cool news is that you can ask your questions and be entered to win an iPad mini as well as a $500 donation to be directed to the Boys and Girls Club of your choice (I would love for my local BGCA (the Boys and Girls Club of the Big Bend) to get this!).

To ask a question of the CyberTribe Q&A Team, visit this link.

So often, our children encounter hostility and bullying on the other end of the screen. Why not check out the BGCA Cyber Safe Initiative and show them a place where they will always find support and the kind of friendship we want for every child?

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4 thoughts on “Cyber Safety: Every Kid Needs A Tribe

  1. This is such an important topic! I’ve recently spent some time with my Mom researching and writing a new bullying (cyber and otherwise) segment for our Safe Kids 101 program that comes out in the fall. Kids AND parents need to be equipped with the tools to deal with bullying. This is a great resource. Thanks for sharing! (Stopping in form the SITS Sharefest!)

  2. I really like those discussion cards. It gives people a starting point and you can talk with your kids in small doses. (Because we know they tend to tune us out after too long!) Great post!

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