I had the opportunity to be in my favorite place (New York City) for approximately 24 hours recently. It wasn’t nearly long enough, but it was better than nothing.
I got to my hotel room around 2 p.m. on my arrival day, then had a couple of hours worth of work to do.
I had play tickets (“Hamilton”!!!) at 7 p.m.
You know what I did in my favorite place, where I could have possibly squeezed in a half hour at a museum, a very quick trip to The Highline (a treasured destination to me) or something I couldn’t have done in Tallahassee?
I got my gel manicure soaked off because there was a huge chip that was driving me nuts.
I only had time to get it soaked off (most of the places I looked into still require appointments). I got an appointment at a nearby place for 5:00 p.m.
When I arrived, the woman said she could possibly get my nails soaked off and a new manicure (which would have to drive). She suggested I come back for both the next day.
But the thing is: I refused to go to “Hamilton” with a chipped, gross nail.
I am sure this little discussion begs the question of why on earth it mattered. My seats were not the absolute cheapest in the place, but I was squeezed in with fellow audience members into the best seat I, an extremely frugal person, could justify. No one — and I mean no one — associated with the show would see my nails.
Here’s the thing. Seeing this show was a bucket list item for me. I have known it would be something special for a long time, especially since the night my daughter texted me as she and a friend were seeing it in December 2016, saying something along the lines of, “This is the best night of my life.”
Seeing the Disney Plus version in the summer of 2020 got me really wondering when I could find the time and money to go. I’ve listened since then to around 150 episodes of The Hamilcast podcast, which has given me detailed insights into so many of the performers’ lives and into all aspects of the show. I’ve read Ron Chernow’s book, “Alexander Hamilton.”
I’ve learned about so many choices that have been made by those involved in the show that reflected attention to detail.
No show is perfect. This show isn’t perfect. The performers aren’t perfect. The story isn’t perfect.
BUT my imagination is captivated by how much everyone involved in the show appreciates what a unique opportunity they’ve been given. I love stories about people who work hard and people who make it a point to be receptive and inclusive.
My nails weren’t perfect going into show day. But there was one that was ragged, chipped and ugly. Even though I didn’t have time to completely redo them, I had time to get rid of the chipped one that I couldn’t stop playing with.
In my head, even though I was the only one who knew that I had taken this tiny step toward having nails that weren’t a mess, it mattered that I paid attention to detail, something the creative team, crew, and performers of this show have done exceptionally well.

Wife of one, Mom of two, Friend of many. My pronouns are she/her/hers.
You would be horrified at my nails! Never polished and always cut short. I once scratched my newborn grandson with a long nail. I cut them off and swore to never grow them out again. I’ve never been a girly girl either. I grew up in a house of boys.
I hear ya! I wouldn’t be horrified — I surely get that people have different preferences about nails. The ones in this picture were a bit more festive (for Easter) but in general I like them short and neutral — I just like the feeling of the edges being clean. And they look good in Instagram pictures LOL.
So glad you were able to see HAMILTON. We had to do the FILM. Had tickets in LA but it was cancelled because of COVID. Attention to detail can be important. I am always making sure the pillows in my living room are placed just right. After all, I no longer have children living with me…there was that time I had a brand new sisal rug and Andrew’s friend Tony tipped over his cup…oh well, humans are always more important than things.
“Humans are more important than things.” For sure. (And make it to the show if you ever can — the film is amazing but the show is just a different dynamic altogether live.)
I get that. That nail would’ve distracted me and I’d be playing with it all night. Still, to see Hamilton! How fun and glad you got that annoying problem out of the way.
Right? If I hadn’t written this at like 1:30 a.m., I would have gone into more detail about the lovely woman from Brazil (also named Paula!) who soaked off my old nails. All good experiences.
You’re right, Paula! It’s all in the details!
So glad you were able to go!
Thanks. I am too. So fortunate and grateful to check something off my bucket list.