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January 18, 2018

Five Minute Friday: INTENTIONAL

Welcome to this week’s Five Minute Friday. Our instructions, via creator Kate Motaung: “Write for five minutes on the word of the week. This is meant to be a free write, which means: no editing, no over-thinking, no worrying about perfect grammar or punctuation.”

Today’s prompt: INTENTIONAL

“Professionals should be intentional about ……….”

In my morning freelance job, I summarize news articles. The goal is to be concise and straightforward.

One type of article I summarize is a professional practices article, such as “how to plan for organizational growth” or “how to prepare for retirement.”

Today, when summarizing one of those types of articles, I started typing “Attorneys should be intentional about their plans for retirement” and then I deleted that word choice.

Besides the fact that there were more concise ways to make the point, who am I to tell someone else a) what they should do and b) to be intentional?

So much of “intentional” comes from being internally motivated, with a lovely layer of strategic methodology on top (or woven through), and I would argue with a generous helping of heart.

As I communicated with someone about a job I had been pursuing today, I had to be honest (yet professional). I don’t know how this ties in with intentional (which is not how my career process has felt since Dad passed away in July and I gained the freedom to work outside of the home if I want to) but an internal voice said “just be honest (and patient).”

It is an ongoing challenge to wait and be patient for life to unfold as it should while remaining intentional about the choices that matter. 
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Paula Kiger
Paula Kiger

Wife of one, Mom of two, Friend of many. My pronouns are she/her/hers.

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  1. Tara says

    January 19, 2018 at 12:01 am

    So much THIS: “It is an ongoing challenge to wait and be patient for life to unfold as it should while remaining intentional about the choices that matter. ” Praying for you friend. I’m in the 4 spot this week.

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    • Paula Kiger (@biggreenpen) says

      January 19, 2018 at 6:35 am

      I appreciate your prayers, always. Will look forward to visiting your entry soon!

      Reply
  2. Annette Tinholt Vellenga says

    January 19, 2018 at 12:36 am

    very true…. to exercise that intention, while being patient…not an easy doing.

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    • Paula Kiger (@biggreenpen) says

      January 19, 2018 at 6:35 am

      Right?!

      Reply
  3. Andrew Budek-Schmeisser says

    January 19, 2018 at 1:09 am

    ‘Just be honest and patient’ is terrific wisdom for life. Thank you for this.

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    • Paula Kiger (@biggreenpen) says

      January 19, 2018 at 6:36 am

      Thank you for stopping by. 🙂

      Reply
  4. Bethany V. says

    January 19, 2018 at 9:33 am

    I agree that intention is very internal and it can be hard to encourage someone else to be intentional as a result. (I see this often with my kids). Most of us do want to be intentional about those things that matter to us, but not all the same things matter to each person. Some lovely insights and perspective here. Thanks for sharing.

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    • Paula Kiger (@biggreenpen) says

      January 19, 2018 at 12:51 pm

      Yes — so many parallels with parenting! Thanks for commenting.

      Reply
  5. The Hellion says

    January 19, 2018 at 3:58 pm

    The only thing I am intent on is having peace….and being peaceful at this point in my life…

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    • Paula Kiger says

      January 19, 2018 at 5:28 pm

      I think that is an intention we can all embrace.

      Reply
  6. Brooke Fradd says

    January 19, 2018 at 4:07 pm

    a difficult but worthwhile challenge!

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    • Paula Kiger says

      January 19, 2018 at 5:28 pm

      I agree!

      Reply
  7. Jenn says

    January 19, 2018 at 5:43 pm

    “It is an ongoing challenge to wait and be patient for life to unfold as it should while remaining intentional about the choices that matter. ”

    Such a balance to strike here, but so important!

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    • Paula Kiger says

      January 19, 2018 at 8:13 pm

      Yes — an ongoing quest.

      Reply
  8. Vicki says

    January 19, 2018 at 11:28 pm

    “So much of “intentional” comes from being internally motivated, with a lovely layer of strategic methodology on top (or woven through), and I would argue with a generous helping of heart.” this makes me smile! I think of building an internal ‘me’ who will do my bidding, rather God’s bidding. I love how you phrased this. God bless!

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    • Paula Kiger (@biggreenpen) says

      January 20, 2018 at 9:09 am

      Thanks, Vicki! I can tend to be pretty externally motivated, so it’s a reminder TO myself as much as anything. I am glad it resonated with you.

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  9. Katha von Dessien says

    January 21, 2018 at 12:01 pm

    “Be honest and patient” is a good way to approach relationships and life in general. Thanks for sharing!

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    • Paula Kiger says

      January 21, 2018 at 12:08 pm

      Ha! As a matter of fact it is! 🙂

      Reply
  10. Lauren Sparks says

    January 21, 2018 at 6:40 pm

    Thank you for sharing your heart struggle. Very relatable. Visiting you from FMF. http://www.thesparksnotes.com

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    • Paula Kiger says

      January 21, 2018 at 7:19 pm

      Thanks, Lauren! I’m a bit behind in visiting everyone and hope to read your post soon.

      Reply
  11. curly2880 says

    January 22, 2018 at 11:24 am

    I love your last thought about being patient and intentionally waiting!

    beautiful thoughts! Thank you for sharing-

    -Traci http://www.tracimichele.com

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    • Paula Kiger says

      January 22, 2018 at 1:09 pm

      Thanks, Traci!

      Reply

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