I often laughingly tell people that Facebook highlights have become a steady stream of “isn’t my new grandchild beautiful?” (they always are) and “so sorry to announce that Fluffly has crossed the rainbow bridge” (always sad). We Facebook users are older and grayer than many other social media channels, and it frequently shows.
Prompted by Mama Kat, though, a look at six hot topics in my Facebook world proves there’s more to my Facebook family than birth announcements and goodbyes to beloved pets.
Our Embattled Health Care
While I recognize that the Affordable Care Act is flawed, I also firmly believe The American Health Care Act was in no way a suitable replacement.
Having worked for Florida Healthy Kids for almost 20 years, I became a diehard believer in the power of preventive care, in the potential that can be unlocked if someone thinks out of the box and people with the patience to slog through the mind-numbing details of crafting federal policy and budgets follow up.
This is one of the graphics I received via my fellow advocates at I Stand with Planned Parenthood yesterday and posted to my wall prior to the failure to repeal the Affordable Care Act:
#StandWithPP is (quoting from them): “A group of social media influencers across platforms – from Twitter to YouTube to blogs – saying together #StandWithPP to ensure that women have access to health care services that range from cancer screenings to birth control.” To join, complete this form.
The Emergence of Female Political Candidates, Especially at the Local Level
When I pulled up the Emerge America site while looking for a stat to use about the number of women entering the political arena (especially local) in the wake of the presidential election, I wanted to act on every single action point of the #WhySheRuns effort to increase the number of women running for office (with the exception of running myself), such as sharing the graphic below immediately.
My belief in the power of women to make a difference locally, at the state level, and nationally (as well as internationally) drove me to donate to my friend Nicolette’s campaign for a seat on the Orange County Commission.
While there are traditional still photos of Nicolette and her awesome family on her campaign Facebook page, this picture, to me, best represents what women can do these days to make a difference: talk to people. Explain how to be a part of government. Overcome fears, objections, inertia. Talk. To people.

Nicolette hosts an advocacy training for the Lake Nona Democrats.
If Our Kids Become Our Parents
Alexandra Samuel posted this to Facebook the other day.
If you knew your kids were actually time travelers who will eventually go back in time and become your parents, how would that change your parenting?
Aaaaaaaaaand I freaked out. I have always said that I imagine I overcompensated in my parenting for the issues that I took to the therapist’s couch, and I imagine that overcompensation in itself will give my kids plenty of material for their own therapeutic relationships.
It’s probably unfair to my kids to delve too deeply into this. For starters, I suspect Tenley would create a much more orderly, clean, environment in which I as a daughter would wear more monograms and less “wow! doesn’t this quirky piece from Goodwill make you feel unique?” items. With Wayne Kevin as a parent, no one would get all worked up about the thousand and one administrative details of life; we would be too glued to YouTube.
Why Neal’s Mom Should Pay $120 For Great Tennis Shoes
My Facebook friend Neil Kramer asked Facebook Nation for help convincing his mom to indulge in proper footwear:
Please tell my mother that she deserves $120 New Balance sneakers if they are good for her feet.
Sounds like Neil’s mom is has a vein of the same self-sacrificing, frugal constitution that my parents have. $120 is, sadly, run of the mill for proper walking shoes these days. Honestly, if I had $120 I would have shipped them to her the minute I saw the post. I suspect the issue isn’t having the $120 to spend but her aversion to spending it “gasp!” ON SHOES.
Just do it, Neil’s Mom. I am sure you deserve it. As I told Neil, go to RoadrunnerSports.Com, and get a special deal on day one of visiting the website ($25 off a $75 or more order) as well as the option of their 90-day return policy, where you can return shoes no matter how worn within 90 days if they don’t work out (for credit toward another pair of shoes). We have tested this feature out and they mean it!
Editor’s Note: Neil’s mom got shoes! She got Nikes instead of New Balance but all reports say she is pleased with her purchase. In other news, Neil has now gone down the podiatry rabbit hole and “plantar fasciitis” is in his vocabulary (as well as words like “pronation“). He may never be the same!
Why Everything About Everything Bagels is Awesome
In addition to his plea for help convincing his mom to take care of her feet, Neil posted this (titled “remains of everything bagel”):
Which brought out ALL the “everything bagel” lovers on Facebook (me included). In addition to the wonders of the everything bagel (they’re best eaten in one of the five boroughs, to be specific, but those of us not currently in NYC have to do the best we can), we discussed:
- The existence in this world of Trader Joe’s “Everything But the Bagel” seasoning blend, and
- The tasty “Baked Everything Bagel Beer Chicken Legs” recipe from The Beeroness.
And guess what I had for breakfast today?
Disney
Since I wrote about Disney last Sunday, am still coming down from the high of spending a few days there last week, have lots of young friends doing the Disney College Program, and in general have many friends going to Disney right now (maybe spring break has something to do with it), there’s a lot of Disney on my Facebook feed and I’m okay with that!
How about you? How is Facebook edifying (or annoying) you lately?

Wife of one, Mom of two, Friend of many. My pronouns are she/her/hers.
I tend to visit facebook less and less, especially since the election and inauguration. But you’ve got some fun things going on. The If-Our-Kids-Become-Our-Parents is really thought provoking!
I hear you on that (Facebook being a stressor). The kids-as-parents thing really took hold in my head. In the actual thread, the conversation took all kinds of interesting twists (what if our parents got the chance to raise their grandparents, and on an on). Point being goodness gracious I’ve tried to be a good parent but I really wonder what strengths and weaknesses mine will take into parenthood as a direct effect of my choices.
I read Disney World recently opened “Pandora” (from Avatar film) and is currently intent developing 14 acres into a Star Wars World to open in 2019. So lots to look forward to!
I hate to lose any small amount of Disney cred I’ve accumulated recently but I don’t know much about the Pandora expansion! Sounds BIG, though, and knowing Disney it’ll be phenomenal.
I always love reading your posts … there are many things going on out there xxx
Aw thank you! Can’t wait to see you again! xo
Yep, our Facebook feeds look pretty darn similar! lol
Twinsies!
I find I am addicted to the On This Day feature!!!
Yes —- it really makes me realize what a trick time plays on all of us.
Because I have lived in 9 different states, I value FB for keeping in touch. But I have to keep some boundaries about posts that put gasoline on political debates, and I have to be sure to be happy for others’ fun trips and not jealous. Thanks for the thoughtful post.
Isn’t it incredible for keeping in touch? (Even with having to deal with the politics.) My 87 year old mom is on Facebook. I love it! 🙂
I love FB for connecting me with people I lost track of over the years. I can see pictures and get a glimpse of their lives. The unfriend button is available to those who annoy us and I am not afraid to use it!
Great points! 🙂
Now this was super-fun. You inspire me to take another look at my Facebook feed. ACA staying the course is high on my list of good things, too. Replenish, repair, reinvigorate. Good things take time to build.
So true (about the good things taking time). If you do the post idea, let me know. I want to see yours! 🙂
Love this post! And amen on encouraging women to run for office! I attended a presentation which showed that women win as often as men when they run – but they don’t run. So certainly the first step is to encourage women to run.
Thanks much! I love that initiative (the one that encourages women to run). It takes so much courage to do so — but courage is something most of the woman I know have more of than they know.