As I wrote in my guest post for the American Heart Association’s #BreakUpWithSalt initiative, about six in ten caregivers in a national survey by the National Alliance for Caregiving reported that their eating (63%) and exercising (58%) habits are worse than before. I am among those six in ten.
When I stopped running in early October because my rapid heart rate kept breaking through despite taking a beta blocker before exercising, I stopped other exercise activities too. The “reasons” mushroomed easily: once my son was able to drive himself, he was able to stay out after school finished, hanging out with his friends (or whatever). Going to an early morning class so that I could be home before my husband left for work involved an early wakeup that felt increasingly impossible to do. I was embarrassed about my weight gain.
Then the 12 Days of Fitness Challenge happened.
In December, BA Fitness posted on their Facebook page that there would be a “12 Days of Fitness” challenge. The challenge was set to begin the next day, so I had to make a quick decision regarding whether I was “in” or not. I decided! I was in! The basics: Do 12 classes within an abbreviated period of time (15 days). Don’t miss any classes you signed up for (or the clock would start over). In return? More fitness and a lovely custom workout towel (plus a chance to be entered in a drawing for free classes and other goodies.
Fast forward to the end. I *did* earn my towel (yay) and gathered a few insights along the way:
Why A Challenge Made a Difference
The Towel
Having done many efforts such as Relay for Life and Making Strides Against Breast Cancer, I have always been *amazed* at how hard people will work to earn a tshirt that may cost $5 to make. How many hundreds and thousands of dollars they’ll raise. That was me with the reward towel. Granted, it was exclusive to participants of the challenge who met the 12-class minimum, but in the end it was “just a towel.” But I wanted it! Like Joe, the swag was calling my name!
The Finite Time Line
Because the Challenge had a specific begin and end date, I had to fit my 12 classes in within a specified period of time. That short-circuited any “I’ll get to it eventually” thoughts in my head and made me overcome barriers I had been allowing to stop me from showing up.
Detailed, Transparent Updates
The challenge scoreboard was posted on Facebook at least once a day. Why did that matter? For starters, we could see each other’s progress? A perfect recipe for lots of support sharing (and a tiny quantity of good natured prods (as in, I’m getting up at 4:30 am to make the 5 am class — you can too, friend!)). Since the towels were limited to the first 25 people to complete the challenge, seeing a line of people ahead of us who were closer to hitting the 12-class mark than we were was motivation to step up our efforts and get our butts to class.
Accountability Matters
I had gotten out of touch with the fact that the best thing people and fitness lovers can do for one another is hold each other accountable. I stopped being on “active status” with my team (although my incredible coach still goes way above and beyond to track my workouts). I wasn’t racing so there was no “let’s get some runs in so we are prepared for the next 5K” type activity going on. When I knew my fellow challenge participants would be expecting me in class, and that my NOT going was stealing a spot from someone who needed it (it got pretty hard to find space in classes as the challenge proceeded), I showed up.
Planning Ahead is Your Friend
Like I mentioned above, as the challenge progressed, it got harder and harder to find space in class. I missed an opportunity to check off one (or two, if I had been willing to do a double) class of my list on a premium Saturday when I actually could go, because I waited too late to sign up. If you have a goal, plan ahead in order to execute it.
Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone Is Good
Because I had to take whatever classes were available, I took some classes I would not have traditionally picked. I got to exercise different muscles (literally), meet new people, and explore exercise alternatives I would not have tried before.
Excuses Hurt Only Ourselves
After I had to get carted back to the start area a mile into a walked 5K in October, something in my willpower deflated. Years of consistent exercise (some of those years with rockingly consistent nutrition (some not so much) felt like a waste of time. I know they weren’t a waste of time, but I was feeling sorry for myself. I was afraid to work out in the event my tachycardia acted up, afraid I would “cause a problem” for the staff or fellow students at the studio if I had an episode, just AFRAID.
Thanks to the challenge, though, for all the morning classes I did as part of a challenge, I drank only decaf before class, took my beta blocker, tried not to feel self conscious about bedhead or wearing colors that didn’t match, and DID IT. If I felt like something was pushing me too hard, I took a break. It was hard to stop worrying about what others thought (lazy/out of shape/unmotivated) but it was an important reminder that not everyone knows our stories.
THE HAPPY ENDING
Yes, I got the towel. More importantly, I got the push I needed to look those excuses, the extra pounds, the logistical challenges, and the health issues in the face and recommit to taking care of myself.
Looks like I am going to need a few MORE towels.
Wife of one, Mom of two, Friend of many. My pronouns are she/her/hers.
kim (@kim_today) says
Very good! Congrats on getting your challenge completed!
Paula Kiger (Big Green Pen) says
Thanks, Kim!
Rena McDaniel says
As a caregiver is it so easy to fall behind in our own health routines. Kudos to you for making the effort and following through!
Paula Kiger (Big Green Pen) says
It really is – you can read the stats and say “that will never be me” but the stats are what they are for a reason. I’m a much better caregiver when I take time to care for myself too.
Haralee says
Good for you and you got the towel to prove it!
Paula Kiger (Big Green Pen) says
Exactly!! 🙂
The Hellion says
You go girl! Is a towel better than a tee shirt? LOL
Paula Kiger (Big Green Pen) says
I mean did you see this adorable towel???!!! But to answer your question — in this case I think it worked well because they could buy 25 to have ready to hand out as people earned them – no worries about sizes, etc. I personally could clothe a small army in the collection of tshirts I have amassed from 5Ks etc., so I am a fan of workout towels – they’re perfect for indoor cycling class. A 5K I went to (at the beach, appropriately) gave beach towels instead of tshirts and I*loved* them! I guess different people have different opinions but in the case the towel was awesome. 🙂
The Hellion says
LOL…and the beach towel sounds awesome, but then anything with the word beach in it sounds awesome right now…
homewithmimiblog says
Congratulations on meeting the challenges and earning your towel! It’s funny how a common item like a towel (you could go out and buy yourself a towel cheaply and easily) can become a symbol of so much more.
Paula Kiger says
That’s exactly it! I’m just glad there was SOMETHING to up the accountability level in my life — it had definitely gone dormant. Thx for your comment.
Lorna Croswell says
Congrats on achieving your fitness goal (and getting that towel!) Sometimes we just need a little motivation…no matter what it is. Plus this challenge sounded like a TON of fun- mixing up the routine and meeting new active friends 🙂
Paula Kiger says
Thanks, Lorna! It definitely provided a needed shot of motivation. The spring challenge is a whole new ball game, so wish me luck with that one!