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December 25, 2016

Christmas 2016

As I was addressing Christmas cards this year I was laughing at my younger self.

At how I would coordinate every piece of the process: the photo session at a studio, the card design itself, a special sharpie to sign the cards with (one year was all silvers and blues), holiday stamps that matched the theme, return address labels which coordinated with everything else, a special little note pad I could use to add a personal note, and even little coordinating seals to put over the envelope flaps.

This is not that year. My return address labels have only my name (and “The Big Green Pen”); the stamps were a mixture — some happened to be holiday stamps; others were generic. I did use a green pen to address them with (that was a no-brainer). But in no way was this year’s effort the coordinated, expensive, meticulous equivalent of years past.

I suppose in my progression from perfectionist to realist there is an allegory for life itself.

I just know I am grateful for this gift of family, imperfections and all.

Christmas 2016

I am also grateful for those of you who have read my blog, commented, shared, and encouraged me, whether you have been with me since 2009, are just reading me for the first time, or something in between. Looking forward to a perspicacious 2017!

Paula Kiger
Paula Kiger

Wife of one, Mom of two, Friend of many. My pronouns are she/her/hers.

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  1. Michelle says

    December 27, 2016 at 9:16 am

    What a lovely picture!! And you still do better than I do with the holiday cards. I gave up on sending them around 5 years ago.

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    • Paula Kiger says

      December 27, 2016 at 9:58 am

      Thanks! The last few years have been hit or miss for us and cards. The funny thing about this picture is ……. there WAS an “official” photographer who does beautiful work ….. and we planned to have them do a picture at the reception (which was that evening) but this was a somewhat spontaneous iPhone picture taken right after the wedding when the lighting was pretty and we had a spare moment. I am so glad it turned out this way (because the “official” photographer ended up not being able to fit us in. We have a BIG extended family!!).

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  2. 1010parkplace1010ParkPlace says

    December 28, 2016 at 12:43 pm

    At least you send Christmas cards! I’ve never done that before.

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    • Paula Kiger says

      December 28, 2016 at 10:27 pm

      Ha! I am such a fan of snail mail. Honestly I did better when I had an old fashioned paper address book. A few computer switches and my address database has gotten away from me! This year’s receipt list was somewhat spontaneous (i.e., if I got a card from you, I was grateful to have your address in front of me and you probably got a card!).

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  3. Haralee says

    December 28, 2016 at 12:45 pm

    Great family picture! Just sending cards these days is a big effort and in my experience I am thrilled to receive any cards! It is like tearing open the gift wrap to get at the gift. I don’t even look at the stamp or the ink or the return address, I just want to know who is thoughtful enough to send me a card!

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    • Paula Kiger says

      December 28, 2016 at 10:29 pm

      Right? I definitely was over the top perfectionist in those past years. It is funny though — I mailed some of my cards during my trip to NYC and my niece in South Carolina said “we were so confused by the New York City postmark.” I guess some people do still look at the micro level!

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  4. Velva says

    December 29, 2016 at 6:38 pm

    Happy new Year to you and your family! May 2017 be everything you hope for-

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    • Paula Kiger says

      December 29, 2016 at 10:01 pm

      Thanks, Velva! I wish the same for you and your family. 🙂

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  5. Joe Cardillo says

    December 30, 2016 at 3:36 pm

    May we all be perspicacious in the new year! Hope you & family are well Paula =)

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    • Paula Kiger says

      December 30, 2016 at 6:23 pm

      So great to hear from you, Joe! And yes we could all use a bit of perspicacity in 2017. (But did you see I changed the main name of the blog to Big Green Pen? Too many years of “I don’t get it” led me to believe I really should pay attention to the feedback I was getting. But I am still very very very pro-perspicacity!!) Happy New Year!

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