I need a place to sit my coffee down in a crowded staff meeting
I start to place it on the floor under my seat
Alex scrambles to take it from my hands
I have learned not to say “oh, that’s okay, I’ll take care of it myself”
to Alex
It’s more than courtesy; it’s culture
In his culture, putting food on the floor is a sign of disrespect
of a dearth of appreciation
of taking for granted something that not everyone gets.
He says it’s a Latin American thing
I try to learn more
He tells me stories – of knowing what it’s like to have nothing
He tells me that in Colombia it would be rude to ask for more food
When there are still remnants on the plate
He doesn’t understand throwing food away
The stories go beyond food
He tells of walking four hours to school barefoot
So his shoes would be perfect for school
To demonstrate respect for the teacher
Wife of one, Mom of two, Friend of many. My pronouns are she/her/hers.
I love it! Food culture is a fascinating thing, isn't it?
This is all so true! I struggle with how to ensure my girls appreciate what they have….it's hard when they've never known struggle as I did. As they get older, I plan to involve them in community service so they can see outside of their little worlds. Happy Thanksgiving!
I am always grateful that I live in America with an abundance of food! It's true we take food for granted sometimes. We are very fortunate!
BEautifully said! Thanks for visiting my blog and leaving a link to this post for me. I appreciate it and think your musing poetry about respecting food is a message we all need to hear — especially this time of year when so much of the real reason for the holidays seems to get swamped under buying stuff we don't need.
Great blog post! Respecting food is a direct connection to one's culture. A simple act of sharing a meal is what brings people together.